21 September 2015

Naimah Talks: Distancing yourself from negativity

Hello Lovelies

        Honestly I don't know if I have ever discussed this topic before, but it's been weighing heavy on my conscience. I have been brought into a few situations these past few weeks and, I wanted to shed some light on it. Many times in life we keep around the wrong people and, they tend to bring us down. If a person brings you down or doesn't compliment your progress it's seriously time to let them go. I held on to the wrong people just because I was so used to there company. They didn't do my life any good and, for the most part they brought me down. For example I was really close friends with these group of girls in high school. I always stuck by them and was loyal to them even when they brought me no type of good. They would introduce me to bad things and, always bring me down when they can. Every time I spoke up and, showed difference of opinion they would always push me away and turn every person against me. So as time went by I distance myself and started making new friends that actually respected my opinion.

       After a while they spread rumors about me and completely hated me. I always wondered why they hated me because, I was always loyal to them and I actually put them before me. Them spreading rumors and hating me showed me that they weren't really my friends they just were using me as props. This made it easy for me to cut negative people like them out of my life. Don't compromise your happiness for people who don't care about you or your growth. Now the bigger problem is when those negative people are close family members. Every body has a family member that constantly puts you down and, down plays you potential. Despite how many times you try to prove yourself it's just not good enough. Trust me you'll never be good enough to anybody but yourself. These people are usually not happy with them selves so they pressure you and, tell you how to fix your life and, do you better. It's so tricky because you want them to be apart of your life but, you don't want them to dictate it. The best option is to slowly pull away and not let there opinion matter to you. distance yourself from them and, there opinion and negativity won't do you no harm. You need to surround yourself with people who actually appreciate your presence and bring the best out of you.  There is no need for acceptance when you truly love and except yourself.




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13 September 2015

A night on the the town

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           I am finally back with a new post for you guys it's been such a long time coming of me. I genuinely miss you guys with all my hearts. As soon as I got off the plane all I thought about was looks to shoot and, share with you guys. I was so excited I also purchased a few items for the fall looks that I will share in future posts. So be on the look out for that but, with out any further ado lets get right into this look that I have here.

          I haven't had a girls night in forever so it felt so right for me and, my girls to go out. We've all been away for the whole summer so it made sense for us to catch up. On this night I decided to go for a settle chic look that complimented my figure and, also had a little bit of edge. I think many of you know that I am an edgy girl so a little bit of edge never kills. I rocked my favorite heels at the moment that I purchased from New Yorker. I don't know if many of you are familiar with the store but, it gives the best deals on the best items. This whole outfit was inspired by my heels everything else simply fell into place. I pared this look with a basic black T-shirt from New yorker and, my favorite high waisted jeans from H&M. I went with a flannel also purchased from H&M but, the mens section. I love to hop over to the mens side and, pretend I am getting my brother items when it's actually all for me. Lastly I went ahead and, pared it with a plane white scarf and, a bag from Pimkie.

      I hope this look has inspired future looks of yours. Be looking forward to weekly posts so, make sure you subscribe and share this. Thank you guys so much for taking your time to read this. Outfit details are down below make sure you check that out too.










Outfit Details:
Heels: New yorker
Jeans: H&M
T-shirt: New yorker
Flannel: H&M
Bag: Pimkie

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