26 September 2016

Self confidence | Naimah.A.

 Hello Dolls

                 I've received an email from a young lady who's name shall be anonymous, and she asked me how do I stay so confident in my own skin. I honestly had no right answer because as much as I wanted to give her great advice I couldn't help but feel biased. I told her that I too struggle with self confidence from time to time and for years iv'e been in a
constant battle because I've experienced being bulling for so long. Not many people would expect that from me because iv'e grown so strong over the years but from time to time I do experience harsh words that do break me down. I explained to her that self love and confidence is a constant battle for me but it's a battle that I never let defeat me. My number one way of coping with these challenging times is praying about them and keeping positive. I also like to do things that make me happy like shooting for my blog and doing my makeup. I just keep my mind so busy on all the great things I'm capable of and have that it kinda out ways the negative comments and gives me that self reassurance. So no matter if I come off as strong and resilient I still experience harsh words that do bring me down and my way of coping with it is be acknowledging it and remembering my worth.

Outfit Details
Top : New yorker
Dress : Gloria Vanderbilt
Stocking : H&M
Shoes : H&M


  1. wow.. I love ur style. the denim dress is good

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  2. Amazing look!
    I really love that dress!!!!!
    And you are stunning today!
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  3. Great story! I totally recognize myself it. I've been bullied as well when i was younger! But now I'm stronger than that.

    1. Awwh thats so good to hear I'm happy you got stonger.

  4. I love what you have written about self-confidence. I think it is something we can always work on, developing a good relationship with oneself is very important...most of us struggle with maintaining self-confidence, even if some people don't admit it, they probably doubt themselves at some point or other. We all change and sometimes we need time to adjust to those changes. I see building our self-confidence as a process. As we grow and develop as human beings, we start trusting ourselves more. Bullying can be really hard, both when we're kids and adults, and it can take many forms...people can be really cruel and manipulative. When times are hard, we must remember that only we are creators of our own life and that with God's help everything is possible. Great article!

    Your outfit is so perfect, love that denim dress! Amazing boots too!


    1. thank you:) your texts are always very meaningful and inspiring.

  5. you are so gorgeous! your makeup is so on point! I like how you said that you deal with harsh words by acknowledging it and then remembering what you're worth. that's a really great tip :) it's definitely difficult to keep up self confidence when there's so much that can bring us down.

    ~Andrea Tiffany~

  6. Great post dear, very original theme. And, your denim dress is so chic.

    Have a lovely day xx

  7. That's a great topic and something that most of us deal with daily. Sometimes it's good, sometimes not really but it's something that doesn't come just like that. It's a long process and doing what you love and makes you happy is certainly one way of building that confidence. Also, i think that when someone sees a pretty girl like you, they automatically think that your life must be is easy, that you have it all figured out, but it has nothing to do with the reality. I enjoyed this post and you look great as always :)

    1. This paragraph has made my day, thank you for stopping.

  8. Hello! This post couldn't be written any better! Reading through this post reminds me of my good old room mate! He always kept chatting about this. I will forward this page to him. Fairly certain he will have a good read. Many thanks for sharing!